O boy and it is the final weekend of what has been a gorgeous August for many of us weatherwise.
I’m Scott Savoy welcoming you to our Sterling Creations desk and for this week our president Donna J. Jodhan
Talks about when change is unexpected.
She hits the nail on the head and she invites you to send her your thoughts to donnajodhan@sterlingcreations.ca
Happy holiday weekend everyone!
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When Change Is Unexpected
By Donna J. Jodhan
Navigating the Waves of Change: Handling the Unexpected
Change is an inevitable part of life, weaving through our personal and professional experiences. While we often prepare for change—such as a job transition, moving to a new city, or starting a family—unexpected changes can feel like a jolt to the system. Whether it’s an abrupt career shift, a sudden loss, or a global event like a pandemic, how we handle these unexpected changes significantly influences our actions, reactions, and mindset. In this blog, we’ll explore how to navigate these turbulent waters and develop resilience in the face of unforeseen challenges.
Understanding the Nature of Change
When we encounter change, our initial response is often shaped by whether we anticipated it. Expected changes allow us to prepare mentally and emotionally, fostering a sense of control. For example, if you know you’re going to relocate for a job, you can plan your move, say goodbye to friends, and mentally adjust to your new surroundings. This proactive approach can help us manage stress and anxiety more effectively.
In contrast, unexpected change throws us into a state of uncertainty. Our brains are wired to seek stability and predictability; when faced with sudden change, we may experience feelings of shock, confusion, and even fear. These emotions can trigger a fight-or-flight response, leading to impulsive actions or a desire to retreat.
The Impact of Unexpected Change on Mindset
Unexpected changes can challenge our mindset in profound ways. They can:
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Trigger Resistance: Initially, we may resist the change, clinging to our previous routines and beliefs. This resistance can manifest as frustration, anger, or denial, making it difficult to move forward.
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Foster Adaptability: Over time, as we process the unexpected, we may develop a more adaptable mindset. This flexibility allows us to embrace new possibilities and innovate solutions we may not have considered before.
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Enhance Resilience: Each encounter with unexpected change can build our resilience. Learning to navigate life’s unpredictability prepares us for future challenges, making us more robust and resourceful.
Strategies for Dealing with Unexpected Change
While unexpected change can feel overwhelming, there are effective strategies to manage it and turn challenges into opportunities:
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Pause and Reflect: When faced with unexpected change, take a moment to breathe and reflect. Avoid knee-jerk reactions. Consider the change’s impact and what it might mean for you moving forward.
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Seek Support: Reach out to friends, family, or colleagues. Sharing your feelings and thoughts can provide perspective, reassurance, and practical advice. Building a support network is crucial during turbulent times.
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Embrace a Growth Mindset: Adopt the belief that you can learn and grow from any situation. Focus on what you can control and view challenges as opportunities for personal and professional development.
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Set Small Goals: Break down your response to the change into manageable steps. Setting small, achievable goals can help you regain a sense of control and direction amidst uncertainty.
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Stay Open to New Opportunities: Unexpected change often opens doors to new experiences and avenues. Stay curious and open-minded, allowing yourself to explore paths you might not have considered otherwise.
Conclusion
Handling unexpected change is undoubtedly challenging, but it also offers valuable lessons and opportunities for growth. By understanding the differences between expected and unexpected change, recognizing the impact on our mindset, and employing effective strategies to navigate these transitions, we can emerge stronger and more resilient. Change is not merely an obstacle; it’s a chance to evolve, adapt, and redefine our paths. Embrace the unexpected, and you may find that the journey is just as important as the destination.
Just my two cents for today.
Image = a photo of a highway road sign that says, “Changes – Next Exit” with a directional arrow.
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